It's Showtime!

I have a certain level of passion for my shoes. Tho i dun really shop alot for shoes, those that i have are most treasurable. u see, i used to love shopping for footwear, be it sandals, shoes, heels etc, u name it i may just have it. i love shoes that are comfortable, if the outlook of the shoes are nice, then it'll be a
plus point. overall, comfort is the main priority for me. i may have many pairs, BUT i will always prefer my Teva sandals. too bad office dun allow them tho. they are most comfortable and have berjasa to me for the past many years, even before i was married. it has been to bali even. they have never given me scars, blisters or pains while i was wearing them. at times, i do put them away to try out other sandals, but i keep choosing Teva sandals over the others,cos im so used to its comfort.

come to think of it, life's kinda like dat too..

when u r comfortable with that someone and have been together for quite some time, u tend to go back to him/her when u are apart. it is slightly different for human, cos sometimes we dun take that long to get comfy with the other party. and also being human, we tend to sway our tastebuds. u know, we tend to 'itch' to get to know
someone else, same like we itch to buy a new pair of shoes that's on display, dats calling out for u 'buy me.. buy me..' when we do buy them n try them out, they hurt us, give us blisters and scars. only when we are hurt by the new party, only then we realise that 'hey... this is nvr the same as so-n-so...' and this is when we start
missing him/her. u know like wat pple say, u only know how precious that person is to u when he'she is gone.. some pple get to go back to whom they are comfy with.. but some just dun have the opportunity to do so.

another group of pple's mentality is different.
its like they have a pair of Louis Vuitton leather shoes that are oh so expensive and in-trend.they will keep the shoes,wearing them once in a while, only to the shoes on display after dat. when pple talk about having expensive pairs of shoes, they boast abt theirs as well. these pple treat their partners like trophies on
display.only when needed,will they talk about their partners.other than that,they'l act as if it's nothing to talk abt.

well, like wat i always say, each to his/her own. always do what u deem fit and dun bother others. i have always believed that in order for you to understand a situation,u have to go thru it urself.only then will u be able to share your
experience with others.that is y at times, when my Ds are in some problems/dilemma,i am unable to emphatise cos i nvr went thru such situations before.i tink my Ds are so used to me saying 'try...try..' that's the best i can say. n of cos, give them the moral and emotional support as much as possible.at times, i just cant resist
but to blast at them lah..but they know me n how i am.. so its ok. i dun do this to any tom,dick or harry.only to those close to me.if u aint close to me,y should i even bother abt u. heh!

love me or hate me.. hark!

the other kinda group of pple are those who ard telling the whole world abt their misery/happiness.its like u just bought this damn new Nike shoes that are just out,and u go around telling everyone that u got them. then when u found out that urs a fake pair, u go all so quiet cos of shame.sheesh! get a grip! always remember, there's always someone who will be better than you.. and also, there's always
someone who's leading a life far less than yours.
either way, u got to be thankful to what u have.

marriage and motherhood has changed the way i tink and how i percieve life. im glad (
alhamdulillah) that im surrounded by those who love and care for me. if i was to retain the way i tink like how it was 6 yrs back, i dun tink im even qualified to called a wife or a momma.i mean, how can u raise a child when u urself is still a child?

everyday's a learning process..
there's always something new u learn..

so what have u learnt today?

updates by BiG MoMMa on Tuesday, February 21, 2006 at 10:40 | Permalink