haiyah... difficult to say lah...
when u see a gal u know, who just broke up with her bf and is single and available, with another guy at a coffee joint, sitting beside each other and laughing and giggling and acting so close? what is the first thing that comes to your mind?
'oh, she's seeing someone already??' what makes us react in such a way?
well im guessing the operative word in this scenario is JUST.
u know, a gerl just broke up with the bf, and here she is with another guy already.
well, this is what malays call SERKAP JARANG.
taking things at its first sight... only after passing such remarks, SOME, i really mean SOME pple will think otherwise like, hey dat could be her schoolmate or some old friend'.
if its pple of my species, we will be saying 'who cares??' hehe..
anyway my point of this entry is to highlight on the serkap jarang thingy..
NOTE: THIS IS SOLELY MY POINT OF VIEW, SO SCREW YOU IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE.
when pple do something for a simple reason of JUST WANTING TO DO IT, some others will take it differently.
they may be thinking, 'hey he must be doing this cos he wants to get a promotion'.
then they went on saying this to others who in turn will say to the others and it spreads on. and all this is because of some serkap jarang &*#head.
u dun even know the REAL INTENTION of the person doing that particular something, and here you are shooting that person off from his back.
well, u can say everyone is guilty of such behaviour BUT not all are extremists.
extreme tu tak sangat lah tapi kalau dah buat orang marah/menyampah, then that's bad.
its either u get the right picture OR u just shut the hell up.
it took me a hard lesson to make me realise that... but hey, who dun go thru bad patches.
i know some of u reading this may not undersand what im diggin at, but what the heck, its my blog and its my life right?
so i write what i want, i say what i wanna say and i do what i wanna do...
and if i change my mind on anything, u shouldnt even care cos it's my right.
hark!
**afternote, i was reading my sensei's blog and his partner's(my friend oso lah) blog as well... there seem to be this anonymous person who has been charging at them for whatever that they have been doing... hmmm..wonder if the person realise that his/her entries are captured via IP address. if he/she knows then might as well, use the real name right?? hmm..y hide the name? haiyah.. if you are saying or sharing about things that are right, y hide?
wait my point is, y do these anonymous pple have the time to write out so much and then dun claim its their entry? y remain anonymous? sheesh... wat a waste...
'oh, she's seeing someone already??' what makes us react in such a way?
well im guessing the operative word in this scenario is JUST.
u know, a gerl just broke up with the bf, and here she is with another guy already.
well, this is what malays call SERKAP JARANG.
taking things at its first sight... only after passing such remarks, SOME, i really mean SOME pple will think otherwise like, hey dat could be her schoolmate or some old friend'.
if its pple of my species, we will be saying 'who cares??' hehe..
anyway my point of this entry is to highlight on the serkap jarang thingy..
NOTE: THIS IS SOLELY MY POINT OF VIEW, SO SCREW YOU IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE.
when pple do something for a simple reason of JUST WANTING TO DO IT, some others will take it differently.
they may be thinking, 'hey he must be doing this cos he wants to get a promotion'.
then they went on saying this to others who in turn will say to the others and it spreads on. and all this is because of some serkap jarang &*#head.
u dun even know the REAL INTENTION of the person doing that particular something, and here you are shooting that person off from his back.
well, u can say everyone is guilty of such behaviour BUT not all are extremists.
extreme tu tak sangat lah tapi kalau dah buat orang marah/menyampah, then that's bad.
its either u get the right picture OR u just shut the hell up.
it took me a hard lesson to make me realise that... but hey, who dun go thru bad patches.
i know some of u reading this may not undersand what im diggin at, but what the heck, its my blog and its my life right?
so i write what i want, i say what i wanna say and i do what i wanna do...
and if i change my mind on anything, u shouldnt even care cos it's my right.
hark!
**afternote, i was reading my sensei's blog and his partner's(my friend oso lah) blog as well... there seem to be this anonymous person who has been charging at them for whatever that they have been doing... hmmm..wonder if the person realise that his/her entries are captured via IP address. if he/she knows then might as well, use the real name right?? hmm..y hide the name? haiyah.. if you are saying or sharing about things that are right, y hide?
wait my point is, y do these anonymous pple have the time to write out so much and then dun claim its their entry? y remain anonymous? sheesh... wat a waste...
